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How to Win Friends and Influence People

 Eight Things This Book Will Help You Achieve

 Preface to Revised Edition

 How This Book Was Written-And Why By Dale Carnegie

 Nine Suggestions on How tO Get the Most out of This Book

Part One Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

 1 “If You Want to Gather Honey，Don't Kick over the Beehive”

 2 The Big Secret of Dealing with People

 3 “He Who Can Do This Has the whole wodd witll Him．He Who Cannot Walks a Lonely way”

Part Two Six Ways to Make People Like You

 4 Do This and You'll Be Welcome Anywhere

 5 A Simple Way to Make a Good First Impression

 6 If You Don't Do This．You Are Headed for Trouble

 7 An Easy Way to Become a Good Conversationalist

 8 How to Interest People

 9 How to Make People Like You Instantly

Part Three How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking

 10 You Can't Win an Argument

 11 A Sure Way of Making Enemies-And How to Avoid It

 12 If You're Wrong．Admit It

 13 A Drop of Honey

 14 The Secret of Socrates

 15 The Safety Valve in Handling Complaints

 16 How to Get Co-operation

 17 A Formula That wiu work Wonders for You

 18 What Everybody Wants

 19 An Appeal That Everybody likes

 20 The Movies Do It．Tv Does It．Why Don't You Do It?

 21 When Nothing Else Works．Try This

Part Four Be a Leader：How to Change People without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment

 22 If You Must Find Fault,This is the way to Begin

 23 How to Criticize-and Not Be Hated for It

 24 Talk about Your Own Mistakes First

 25 No One Likes to Take Orders

 26 Let the Other Person Save Face

 27 How to Spur People on to Success

 28 Give a Dog a Good Name

 29 Make the Fault Seem Easy to Correct

 30 Making People Glad to Do What You Want

Part Five Letters That Produced Miraculous Results

Part Six Seven Rules for Making Your Home Life Happier

 31 How to Dig Your Marial Grave in the Quickest Possible Way

 32 Love and Let Live

 33 Do This and You'11 Be Looking up the Time-Tables to Reno

 34 A Quick way to Make Everybody Happy

 35 They Mean SO Much to a Woman

 36 If You Want to Be Happy．Don't Neglect This One

 37 Don't Be a“Marriage Illiterate”

How to Stop Worrying and Start Living

 Preface How This Book Was Written-and Why

Part One Fundamental Facts You Should Know about Worry

 1 Live in“Day-fight Compartments”

 2 A Magic Formula for Solving Worry Situations

 3 What Worry May Do to You

Part Two Basic Techniques in Analysing Worry

 4 How to Analyse and Solve Worry Problems

 5 How to Eliminate Fifty Per Cent of Your Business Worries

Part Three How to Break the Worry Habit Before it Breaks You

 6 How to Crowd Worry out of Your Mind

 7 Don't Let the Beetles Get You Down

 8 A Law That Will Outlaw Many of Your Worries

 9 Cooperate with the Inevitable

 10 Put a“Stop-Loss”Order on Your Worries

 11 Don't Try to Saw Sawdust

Part Four Seven Ways to Cultivate A Mental Attitude That Will Bring You Peace and Happiness

 12 Eight Words nlaC Can Transform Your Life

 13 The High Cost of Getting Even

 14 If You Do This．You Will Never Worry About Ingratitude

 15 would You Take a MiIlion Dollars for what You Have?

 16 Find Yourself and Be Yourself：Remember There Is No One Else on Earth Like You

 17 If You Have a Lemon．Make a Lemonade

 18 How to Cure Melancholy in Fourteen Days

Part Five The Golden Rule for Conquering Worry

 19 How My Mother and Father Conquered Worry

Part Six How to Keep from Worrying about Criticism

 20 Remember Tbat No One Ever Kicks a Dead Dog

 21 Do This-and Criticism Can't Hurt You

 22 Fool Things I Have Done

Part Seven Six Ways to Prevent Fatigue and Worry and Keep Your Energy and Spirits High

 23 How to Add One Hour a Day to Your Waking Life

 24 What Makes You Tired-and What You Can Do About It

 25 How The Housewife Can Avoid Fatigue-and Keep Looking Young

 26 Four Good Working Habits That Will Help Prevent Fatigue and Worry

 27 How to Banish the Boredom That Produces Fatigue,Worry,and Resentment

 28 How to Keep from Worrying about Insomnia

Part Eight How to Find the Kind of Work in Which You May Be Happy and Successful

 29 The Major Decision of Your Life

Part Nine How to Lessen Your Financial Worries

 30 Seventy Per Cent of All Our Worries

Part Ten “How I Conquered Worry”-32 True Stories