Whenever my mother talks to me, she begins the conversation as if we were already in the middle of an argument.

  "Pearl-ah, have to go, no choice," my mother said when she phoned last week. After several minutes I learned the reason for her call: Auntie Helen was inviting the whole family to my cousin Bao-bao's engagement party.

Whenever my mother talks to me, she begins the conversation as if we were already in the middle of an argument.

  "Pearl-ah, have to go, no choice," my mother said when she phoned last week. After several minutes I learned the reason for her call: Auntie Helen was inviting the whole family to my cousin Bao-bao's engagement party.

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